11 signs he's not headed toward a relationship with you!

1. He texts instead of calls, or he texts more often than he calls. When a guy likes a girl, he wants to hear her voice. “Texting is not an easy way to communicate—it’s an easy way to avoid communication,”

2. He finds reasons to blow you off or be late more times than not. Maybe he’s just flaky or disorganized, you say? Don’t make excuses. If a guy likes you and wants to continue hanging out with you, he’ll find a way to do so.

3. He talks to his ex-girlfriends. Nothing makes a guy forget his ex like a girl he wants to be with. If he continues talking with an ex, that’s the first sign that he’s either not over a prior girlfriend or he’s just not that in to you.

4. He avoids introducing you to his friends. He should be proud of you, want to show you off, and want to include you in his life.

5. He avoids even minor instances of intimacy in public. “Listen, not all guys are comfortable with PDA (public display affection). Not everyone likes to make out for the whole world to see. But when I really like someone, no matter what I’m generally comfortable doing, I’ll at least put my arm around her and give her a kiss on the cheek.”

6. He doesn’t use the pronoun “we” or use it in the future tense. If he talks about a great new restaurant he discovered, but doesn’t add, “We should go there sometime”—and maybe he just says “I go there a lot”—then he’s not interested in sharing things with you. Plus: “Guys who are into girls want to explore with them—not sit on the couch on every date,”

7. He doesn’t do something sweet for you at least once a week. That doesn’t mean he’s buying you a dozen roses but he should have said or done something that made you go “Aw!” in the last seven days.

8. He doesn’t ask questions about your family and friends.

9. He doesn’t initiate at least 80% of the things you do together. “I call this the 80/20 rule,”. “When I don’t like a girl, the 80% drops significantly. I’m not even aware of it. I’ll get off the phone and never close the conversation with a set of plans.” Note that it doesn’t have to be exact plans, but it should at least be, “Let’s hang out later this week and we’ll do dinner. I’ll call you tomorrow.”

10. He doesn’t remember your one month anniversary.

11. He hasn’t posted a picture of you together on Facebook within two months of the first date. Guys who are excited about you will post and tag your beautiful face!

Okay. Hopefully I didn’t depress you. But the message here is, if you want a relationship with someone and he’s acting out the above list, move on. I don’t believe in “waiting it out” or “breaking him down” so he will “come around.” Don’t put up with someone who semi-likes you. Date someone who is dying to be with you. (You will find him—but you have to know you deserve it!!)[shine.yahoo.com,2011]

What Girls wants in a relationship...

1. Talk. Communication is key. If you are afraid to talk to the girl that you're dating, or if you'd rather do something else, you need to set some priorities. Ask her how her day was. You want her to listen to you, so you should listen to her--conversation is a two way street. # People love talking about themselves. Ask her about her dreams and hopes. It will make her feel like you care about her. Always ask her about school and her day as well.

2. Try to avoid asking lots of questions about where she's been and what she was doing. If they say "Be right back, I gotta go do something", it's usually best not to ask what she were doing, as it can make a girl feel annoyed.

3. Think before you speak! Try to keep things very very positive. If she's complaining about life, don't agree. Tell her she rocks and support her.

4. Compliments are excellent, but know that you should stop at the point where you're just listening to yourself talk. Girls know when you're sincere and when you're just blowing hot air. But, compliments never hurt anyone.

5. Nobody can write the definitive guide on dating! You need to experiment for yourself! Remember, romance is not always an easy thing.

6. Listen to what she has to say and pay attention.

7. Above all, take care of yourself. Keep your daily and lifelong goals in sight. Nothing turns off a woman faster than a man who chooses to accomplish nothing, even if all his attention is directed toward her.

8. Don't be obsessive. Give her some room. she doesnt need you to be hanging on her, she wants to be able to lean on you, not the other way around.

9. Don't cheat on her!! If you flirt with another girl, to make her 'jealous' then its not going to work, she'll think that you like them and might end up moving on. Not all girls get jealous the same way.

10. Make her friends like you, not love you. If they love you, she will think otherwise or something... Don't fall in love with her friends either! [wikihow, 2011]

Simple tips to add spice and passion to your relationship...

You don't need a Hollywood romance writer to write scripts for you when you want to speak romantically to the woman you love and desire. All a man really needs is a lot of sincerity, creativity, and a bit of preparation, and he'll be more than ready to say the romantic things that his woman is yearning to hear.

Having romantic things to say to your woman is important to adding spice and passion to your relationship because it allows you to display your affection and appreciation in a creative and romantic way with your words. Most women are dying to hear their husbands, boyfriends, and significant others say more romantic things to them.

Here are a few sample phrases to get you started and well on your way to saying more romantic things to the woman you love. But remember to remain sincere as you try some of these out. Keep in mind also that your woman is unique, and she should be treated special, because in the long run this is what she wants from you rather than cheesy romantic lines.

1. "I don't need a reason for loving you. If I had a reason for loving you, then I'm afraid that I'd also have a reason for leaving you."

2. "You're my happy place." (with a playful smile while looking into her eyes)

3. "Forever isn't long enough to spend a life with you."

4. "You make me feel complete."

5. "I'm miss your touch, your skin. I just need you so bad."

6. "Shhh. Just kiss me." (say this when she's talking, demand it, but in a sexy and romantic way)

7. "You captivate me."

8. "You're all that I need."

9. "I love loving you. "

10. "I wish this night would last forever."

11. "I can't get enough of you."

12. "You're priceless."

13. "Come closer. Closer." (when she gets really close, kiss her forehead and tell her that you missed her like crazy)

14. "You're my inspiration."

15. "You're my favorite love song."

16. "Talk to me." (say this while holding her hands and lightly stroking it)

17. "I love you just the way you are."

18. "I love/adore the way you _____." (choose something unique and specific about your woman that you sincerely adore about her)[ezinearticle, 2010]

I hope the above phrases could help a cold man like yourself having more ideas of how to spice and add more love fire into your relationship. say these words, your women would sure excited and dying to be with you. Good luck!

Understand why your lady cry...

Women are often cry more than men does. And they might have different reason to cry.
So, below article will lists down some common problem of why women cry.
Notice: the original article is taken from Asker.com which have posted by Mr. John M

Men cry more on logical reasons than women who are more emotionally / hormonally driven.

In the days leading up to her period, your girlfriend is likely to be more emotional than usual and may react to otherwise mundane things with tears. If you think she's overreacting, it's a good idea to comfort her anyway and treat her with some sympathy rather than mock her or completely disregard her feelings, regardless of your own take on the situation. In hindsight, she might eventually agree that she was making a big deal out of nothing, but in the moment there is no course of action but to play along. Make no mistake: Acknowledging that PMS is the cause of her feelings will lead to full-fledged anger and you'll be in for more than you ever bargained for.

Manipulation
Women learn pretty early on in life that men can get uncomfortable when faced with a crying woman, and will often do just about anything to stem the flow of tears. Whether it was a teacher who raised a bad grade after a sob story about a dead dog, or a dad who bought his little girl whatever she wanted so she would stop causing a scene at the mall -- a woman who has had this type of behavior reinforced in childhood will think nothing of trying the same tactics on a boyfriend in adulthood. Unfortunately, it can be tricky to differentiate the sincere tears from the ploy, especially early on in a relationship. When in doubt about her sincerity, removing yourself from the situation is probably the best call, and it’s the only one that guarantees you won't make the situation worse or end up caving in.

Sincere emotion
When it's not hormones or conniving manipulation, the reason for her tears is going to be a sincere and deeply felt emotion. Women respond emotionally to a lot of different situations, so it can be difficult to figure out exactly what's going on with her. The only way she'll be able to start to feel better, however, is if she feels heard and supported. Whether she's feeling hurt by someone (maybe even you) or is feeling frustrated or helpless in a situation she has no control over (perhaps trouble finding a new job), she may resort to tears as a release for her pent-up frustrations. In such a fragile state, your girlfriend isn't looking for a trite Mr. Fix-It synopsis of the matter, she's most likely just looking for someone who is willing to validate her feelings and give her the support she needs to solve things on her own.

It might not be terrible like it sounds!!!

Understanding your beloved women...


Below is the short joke story that my mom has forwarded to me. Let see, how you think about your beloved woman???

Most of women like to say the below three words but not all of them really mean it; they just having sth in their heart that they may wants their Men to find out.

So, gentlemen, let's try to figure out what does your lady really mean when she says any of that three words!!!

"Whatever" "Anything" OR "You Decide"

1 . (Whatever)

Men: What should we have for dinner?
Women: Whatever..
Men: Why don't we have Mexican?
Women: No not Mexican, the last time I got pimples on my face
Men: All right, why don't we have Szechwan cuisine
Women: Yesterday we ate Szechwan, today too?
Men: Hmm..... I suggest we have seafood
Women: Seafood is not good, I got diarrhea
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women : Whatever..

2. (Anything)

Men: So what should we do now?
Women: Anything
Men: How about watching a movie? It's been a long time
Women: Watching movie is no good, it's a waste of time
Men: How about we go for bowling, or some exercises?
Women: Exercise on such a hot day?
Men: Then find a cafe and have a drink
Women: I am off caffeine
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: Anything

3. (You decide)

Men: Then do we just go home?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's take the bus, I will accompany you
Women: The bus is dirty and crowded.
Men: OK; we will take a cab
Women: Not worth it... For such a short distance
Men: All right, then we can walk. We can enjoy the weather
Women: I am hungry, can't walk.
Men: Then what do you suggest?
Women: You decide
Men: Let's have dinner first?
Women: Whatever...
Men: What shall we eat?
Women: Anything..


It is not that Terrible like it sound!!!!! Isn’t it????? but you just need to understand them or that three words are alot more than a nightmare :P

Tips: the thinnest book in the world is " How much Men understanding about WOMEN" haha... girls are complicated rite? actually, we are NOT. but most of Men may need to spend a life time to understand thiers beloved women.