SMART and SUCCESS

Successful people do not have special talent; they are the same to you and me, they, we, are human beings. Or do you think they are successful because they spend most of their time working on their tasks??? You might be rite, but not really right. Becos If work hard is what make people rich, then construction workers will all becomes millionaires. Only work SMART is the arts for SUCCESS.

SMART = Self confident, Maneuver, Ability, Readiness, Tactics.
SUCCESS = self-improvement, Ultimate, Certify, Compatible, Elite, Superior, Satisfy.

Find your own wills, develop your talent, don't give up at your own commitment. Go for the destination, move on for success. Your life is meaningless without facing any obstacles. Never give up, coz nth would stay for eternity, so the problem you are facing with will also pass away. Life is goes on...

Self confidence is truely a cause for success?

Self-confident people find it easy to lead others and all great inspirational leaders are known to have high degrees of self-confidence. Such people can easily inspire others to become self-confident.

Peers, superiors, juniors, friends, as well as family all share their secrets with you when you come across as a self-confident person to them. You are able to achieve your goals easily and quickly with self-confidence and people will look upon you for advice, mentoring, or coaching.

Everyone admires a person with self-confidence. Confidence plays a critical role in every facet of our lives and it is, indeed, one of the most important factors that contribute to our success and happiness.

Confidence is Neither Magical nor Mystical …
…In fact, self-confidence is a learnt trait which can be easily acquired with correct training and guidance. You can be taught how to be a self-assured and a confident person who is capable and is able to meet life’s challenges full on.
Confidence can be acquired when you are certain about something. That ’something’ can be a feeling, a prediction, an action, or a deed. When you know for sure that your thoughts and actions are the most effective or the best they can be, then you have acquired confidence.

When you take the first steps towards having confidence in yourself, your thoughts and actions become clearer. You view yourself as a self-confident person; your thoughts and actions are congruent with each other and are usually correct. This, in turn, reinforces your self-confidence in yourself.

With confidence in yourself, you can achieve more!
On the other hand, self-confident people are sure about themselves and they move ahead attaining one goal after another. Self confident people are able to take calculated risks and always have the good sense to avoid gambling on life. Self confident people can work far beyond their comfort zones and they enjoy stretching themselves to attain more. Self-confidence urges them to try harder and work towards perfection, and self confident people are also able to bounce back faster from their losses and failures.

Confidence can be displayed in your behavior, your body language, what you say, and how you say it. It is a simple matter of learning the right behavior patterns and thought approaches to life and its challenges.People who lack this vital quality of self-confidence either fail or, worse still, they don’t even make a start. They hesitate, they are unsure, and they spend critical moments (or months) in self-doubt and ‘what ifs’. Negativity and other self-destructive thoughts and action often plague people who lack confidence in themselves.

In a nutshell, self-confidence is nothing more than an innate faith in your own ability and purpose in life. [Kym Kirk, 2008]

No matter in what circumstances; keeping your confidence alive - you'll find where to go. be urself, be who you are, value what you have... try all your hardest and worth it. Nothing is worth more than the "self-confidence".

Worth the moment with that special person who really matter to you!

People, we all sometimes may have experienced a very upset moment, failure, painful, and misery; then at the time, at least there a few people had decided to end themselves and vanish their body and soul from the world. Why? Simple reason is that; because they are too thoughtless, they might have been discouraged or looked down or especially those might be a type of lonesome person who has no one to be taking care of or to build up hope when they are really weak and need a hand. So that, they decided to end up their lives or some people might never ever dare to restart or to stand up again.

Lives is like this...it's not a game to play win or lose then you can replay at any time; it's not a game that you can bet with money; neither. Life is a thing that is priceless and to experience many obstacles.

If you are afraid to stand up again due to how you afraid of second failure, you'll never know what the life is really are.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but pointless.

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there. To serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. Additionally; according to Dwayne Savaya, it was said that You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and to open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count.

All in all,we must appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.

Guys, if you don't believe in yourself, you'll never spell the word "SUCCESS" right.And please remember that your self-confident can't help fulfill your life to the meaningful but it's worth your hard-work.

No matter how strong you are to build a life from scratch to where you are at now; don't you ever forget to worth the moment with someone you love, and please value every seconds and every moment with those who are really matters to you. They might need you as much as you need them to be by your side than you ever need those stuffs you have built; or it will be too late till you might have realized how much they meant to you. So, believe in yourself, you give up hopes, and don't ignore the person who cares for you coz they will be your life treasure just you not yet realized that.

things happened, it's always happen for a reason...

Don't look at the world with ur narrow minded, how come u think others are better than u. we're all human being;though, we born in different date,time,place, and grown up with different in personality, and stuffs, but remember, we are still the same coz we born with a human body, flesh and blood and brain. so no one is perfect, everyone does have their own strength and weakness points. don't think that others are more important, worthy, or special than you just because they are richer, more attractive but these does not make them more valuable than you are. you have ur own personality, u have ur own intellectual, ur own eyes to see the world and everything that the world has offered to u are what you deserved...so worth it!
Maybe almost every of us has gone through the hard way or have been failed in what we were trying to do; however, there are really no failures or mistakes in this because we should think that what we've been through are just opportunities for growth. Usually something good does come out of our mistakes. So learn from them, don't repeat them, forgive yourself, and let's move on for better outcomes and that is where we should live our lives for.... for future happiness!