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Showing posts with label self-improvement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-improvement. Show all posts

Inspire urself... start from every little things!

10.13.2009
Sometimes, we don't realize how many important things that are awaiting for us. I believe that we, people, might at least once used to feel down n hopeless n almost don't dare to stand up n to for it again. In the same time, there sth in our heart our soul n our mind that telling us to not give up but be strong n ready for battle... This is called "internal flame or self-courage". Basically, hope n encouragement are really undeniable important, we can't live without hope, life without hope, without goal,life is nothing but an empty place, while, those who are living with hope will see life as a wonderful n a pave for them to reach their goal. Likely, there are various things that can push up that internal flame and we sometimes don't even realize that. When we r hopeless n can't think of anything, don't locked ourself in hell, go talk to someone u trust, the one that always by ur side n always forgive u with every faults u've done, go talk to those who worth the life as a precious thing, talk to those who can always spark ur life with hope n bright the pave of hope for u, coz they r those who living their lives to the full, never give up n always worth every second of their life n accept the truth.

Remember never lose and surrender to whom don't worth your tears, value those moment when you are with someone who can see who you really are,inside you. Coz no one could worth our pain, if there someone, that one will never make us pain. You live your life for yourself not for other else, coz the one you should be with for the whole life is the one who also need you for the rest of their life. Life is like that. sometime, we care for those who make us cry and we leave those who cares for us, cry. Be strong, and remember "even u are just one person to the world, but to one person, you might be the world".

Self improvement is a path to success

9.15.2009
Everything that happens to us happens for a purpose. And sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past troubles, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and your success in life.

When does self improvement become connected with success? It is when you take action on the following tips:

* Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, because you’re not. How can others accept you if YOU can’t accept YOU?
* When you see hunks and models on TV, think more on self improvement, not self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great body, but concentrate on inner beauty.
* When people feel so down and blue about themselves, help them move on. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior and you guys will sure find nowhere to get out off it; unless, you find your self-confidence.
* The world is a large place for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed at some point in your life. There’s always a next time. Make room for self improvement in your life. Learn from failure, but don't ever repeat it.
* Take things slowly. Don’t expect change over night. Self improvement is a one day at a time process.
* Self improvement comes from your inner stability, personality development. It comes from self confidence, and self esteem.
* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement is being who you are – not someone else. It is simply being an improved and better YOU.
* Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realize that the little things that we do like a pat on the back, saying “hi” or “hello”, greetings someone “good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “hey, I love your tie!” are simple things that mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them. [Kym Kirk, 2008]

Self improvement won't work if you are a give up type. Confidence and struggle will do miracle.