Don't ever think that others are better than yourself, no one are perfect. Learn to believe in yourself, do what you wanna do, don't ever give up and; as long as it is harmless, just keep doing it. If you believe in yourself, grasp the opportunity, don't waste a minute useless, keep struggling, never step back, learn from failure, be self-motivated and these is where the success comes from. Live your life as if there's no tomorrow.
it's all about LOVE!
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10 Romantic Relationship tips that work...
Tip #2: Love yourself first. If you don’t love yourself then you really and truly are not ready to give your love to another. Take care of yourself, mentally and physically. Take charge of who you are and assume responsibility for cultivating your strengths and getting clear about what is important to you.
Tip #3:Be true to yourself. Listen to your heart. Go with your gut. Be your best self as often as you can manage.
Tip #4:Listen with an open heart. When your lover speaks to you, always try to be open to what they have to offer. Let them say all that they have to say without interrupting them.
Relationship Tip #5:Ask for what you want. Once you figure out what your priorities are and what it is that you want out of life and from your mate, don’t be afraid to ask for it. It is unlikely that your partner is a mind reader. They will probably be delighted to hear what it is that they can do for you.
Tip #6:Stay curious. There is always more to learn about your love. As your relationship deepens, new layers of personality will be revealed for you to explore. Never assume that you know everything there is to know about your mate. People continue to grow and develop as they go through different stages in their lives. As you change and expand, the dynamics of your relationship can shift. Stay on your toes! Riding the waves of change with your beloved can enrich your relationship, deepen your love and keep things interesting.
Tip #7:Be proactive in your romance. Take the reigns and be a moving force in creating the kind of romantic relationship that you want. There is no need to “settle for less” when you are committed to “writing” your own storybook romance. The more you participate, the more rewarding your romantic journey will be! Let this power be a source of inspiration for you!
Relationship Tip #8:Get THE ROMANCE HABIT: It is said that to make a new habit, you must repeat the action for twenty-one days in a row before it will really stick. Three weeks isn’t very long to practice something that is rewarding in of itself and makes our partner glow with adoration! Your new romance skills will also serve you and your beloved for years to come. Practice DOES makes perfect when it comes to coming up with unique romantic ideas . The more romantic you act, the more romantic you become. And once you have the Romance Habit, you will probably never lose it. The rewards are simply too great.
Tip #9:Be kind to your beloved. Always remember that you two are on the same team! Give them the benefit of the doubt, even when others tell you not to. It is likely that you know your beloved better than anyone else does. Expect the best and that is what you are likely to get.
Relationship Tip #10:Be a hopeless romantic. When you shower your mate with words of love and romantic moments, you greatly increase the odds that they will reciprocate with romantic ideas of their own. Your partner is much more likely to “romance” a sweet and loving partner than a curmudgeon pouting about the lack of romance in the relationship. [romantic-idea-online,2010]
10 Common Reasons causing break-up relationship
Working towards a healthy love relationship is one of the most rewarding and challenging things you’ll ever do! These ten reasons couples break up and relationships fail describe the most common problems couples face.
These tips will help couples build long-term love, and help broken hearts heal after a relationship breakup.
Why Do Couples Break Up?
1. Failing to keep promises, lying, or cheating. These blatant violations of trust often result in failed relationships. If the basic trust in a love relationship is repeatedly broken, the problems accumulate and the motivation to stay together decreases. Partners in healthy relationships agree to reconcile their differences – and if they keep their promises, the relationship can stay strong. However, consistent lying, cheating, or breaking of promises can explain why relationships end.
2. Imbalance of power. A common reason couples break up is when one partner has more decision-making power than the other. When one person usually makes the decisions about activities, friends, financial matters, household matters, holidays, and so on, the relationship can become unstable. If a sense of equality doesn’t exist, a failed relationship could be the result.
3. Acceptance of stereotypes. Mistaken gender myths include beliefs such as “Men like sex more than women” or “Women are passive” or “Men make more money than women.” If one partner believes these stereotypes, false expectations are created – resulting in higher chances of a failed relationship. An equal balance of power can save your marriage.
4. Isolation. A common reason couples break up is isolation from friends and family when the couple first gets together. Intimate love relationships based on fear and insecurity (which is why couples isolate themselves) aren’t stable, and exacerbate other problems – which can lead to a relationship breakup.
5. Lack of self-knowledge. If one or both partners aren’t in tune with their interests, needs, desires, future plans, goals, values, sexual attitudes, and preferences – then it’s difficult for them to engage in a healthy relationship. Self-knowledge helps partners communicate who they are and what they want – which can prevent the breakup of a romantic relationship. This can be a reason why couples break up, especially if they got together when they were young.
6. Low self-esteem, insecurity, and lack of self-confidence. A common reason couples break up is because one partner feels unworthy of being loved. This insecurity can lead to possessiveness and overdependence, which isn’t healthy for a love relationship. Building self-esteem and self-confidence is one way to avoid relationship failure (but each partner must do this for him or herself).
7. Excessive jealousy. “Jealousy is cited as one of the most frequent causes of the breakup of romantic relationships,” writers Roger Hock in Human Sexuality. Delusional jealousy can trigger abuse and violence, which can (and should) be why relationships end. Delusional jealousy isn’t a common problem couples face – but normal jealousy can be.
8. Ineffective communication. If both partners can’t share their thoughts, feelings, opinions, values, needs, frustrations, or even their joys, a failed relationship could result. If this was the cause of a breakup, then learning to love again could involve learning how to communicate effectively. This is a common reason for breaking up.
9. Control issues. If one partner is trying to control or manipulate the other, the love relationship can become weak – or even dangerous. This reason why relationships end may be seen in different ways, such as checking up on the partner, name-calling, threatening the partner, requiring the partner check in all the time, or not allowing any deviations from the partner’s schedule. This isn’t loving behavior, and it results in failed relationships.
10. Abuse. This is the most obvious, surefire way to reason why couples break up. Different types of abuse are attempts to gain total control over a partner. Though relationships like this should end immediately, many partners stay for various complicated reasons. Learning to love and trust again can be difficult if this is the reason the relationship ended.
Conflict and stress are part of most marriages and love relationships – but being aware of the common reasons couples break up can help them work towards a healthy love relationship. [suite101.com,2010]
When you are in love...
Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh, your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone. Then, you are in love.
Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to let you know of their safe arrival, your phone is quiet. you are desperately waiting for the call! That is when you are in love.
If you are much more excited for one short email/message from that special someone than other many long texts, you are in love.
When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the emails or SMS in your phone bcoz of one message from that special someone, you are in love.
You keep telling yourself "that special someone is just a friend", but you realize that you cannot avoid that person's special attraction. At that moment, you are in love.
While you are reading this text, if someone appears in your mind, then that person is your special someone. :)
What is love....
Anyway, I found this scientific and unscientific answers to the question What Is Love? I'm sure you will enjoy reading this and give your own personal opinion about it.
Scientific Answers of What Love Is ~
Researchers (Hatfield & Rapson, 1995) have broken up love into two main types:
* Passionate love which involves continuously thinking about the loved one and also involves warm sexual feelings and powerful emotional reactions.
* Companionate love is having trusting and tender feelings for someone who is close to you.
Now one of the best known theories of love (which means an educated guess that isn't proven fact) is Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love.
The three components of the Triangular Theory of Love are:
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone.
Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time).
Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship.
Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
Now Sternberg also uses his Triangular Theory of Love to answer some of the most commonly asked questions about love:
Is there love at first sight?
This is when we are overwhelmed by passion, without any intimacy or commitment (both of which take time). Sternberg calls this infatuated love, Because there is not intimacy or commitment, infatuated love is fated to fade away.
Why do some people get married after being in love for a very short time?
This is a combination of passion and commitment, but without any intimacy. Sternberg calls this Hollywood love. This is where two people make a commitment to each other based on their passion. Unless intimacy develops over time, this relationship most likely will end.
Can their be love without sex?
Ah yes, companionate love, where intimacy and commitment are present without any sexual passion.
Why doesn't romantic love last?
Passion and intimacy without commitment is Romantic love. When the passion fades, and the intimacy wanes, the relationship ends.
Now, here is the unscientific answers about what love is, check it out if you are familiar with the answers.
Unscientific Answers
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing, And your voice caught within your chest?
* It isn't Love, it's Like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
* It isn't Love, it's Lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
* It isn't Love, it's Luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
* It isn't Love, it's Loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
* It isn't Love, it's Loyalty.
Do you stay for their confessions of Love, because you don't want to hurt them?
* It isn't Love, it's Pity.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
* It isn't Love, it's being Unconfident.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
* It isn't Love, it's Infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
* It isn't Love, it's Friendship.
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
* It isn't Love, it's a Lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
* It isn't Love, it's Charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
* Then it's Love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
* Then it's Love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
* Then it's Love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
* Then it's Love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
* Then it's Love.
But do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
* Then it's Love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death? [gossipme.us,2010]
* Then it's Love.
Now, if Love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we Love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self?
Why?
Because it's...
Love
~Author: Unknown
How To Encourage Yourself - Don't Quit
Ever feel like quitting? "Are you kidding?" you ask, "A better question would be, 'How many times TODAY have I felt like quitting?' " Sure. We've all felt like "throwing in the towel" at one time or another. If you haven't, I suggest that you check your pulse quickly. And here's a real shocker for you: the notion that "winners never quit" is a crock! Everyone - even "winners"- has not only felt like it, but has even quit at one time or another.
Having said that, I do feel that we, too often, give up on our dreams too easily and quickly - perhaps, just one small step short of success. So what do you do when the going gets tough and you feel like quitting? Here are ten strategies that you can employ when you hit those apparent "roadblocks" on your road of life:
1. Remember the reason(s) you started in the first place. What was the "spark" that caused you to begin the journey? Revisiting that may help rekindle the flame that helps you go on.
2. Ask yourself, "What would I rather be doing?" If nothing compelling comes to mind, then determine the next step you need to take to move you closer to your original destination. If something more compelling does come to mind, maybe you need to quit.
3. List 10 reasons why you CAN keep going. What strengths and resources do you possess that will help you achieve your desired outcome? Just the very act of doing this shifts your focus from the problem to the solution.
4. Give yourself permission to quit. Sounds crazy, but it works. When you set up an internal law that says, "I can't quit." Or "I shouldn't quit", it makes the desire to quit even stronger.
5. Give yourself a need to continue. Rather than focus on why you feel you need to quit, focus on why you need to continue. What's the payoff, the reward waiting for you if you persevere?
6. Stop focusing on the struggle and start focusing on the solution. Whatever you focus on expands. If your focus is on the struggle you are experiencing, that becomes the biggest (and maybe even the ONLY) thing on your "horizon" It blocks out many, if not all, of the creative opportunities and solutions that may be trying to present themselves to you.
7. Take a hard look at your methodology. Tired of getting poor or less than optimum results from your efforts? Then why keep doing things the same way an expecting something different to happen? That's the classic definition of insanity! Ask yourself, "What's the most radical or unorthodox action I could take right now?" Try it.
8. Make a contract with yourself. Write out what you intend to accomplish and how you intend to accomplish it and then give yourself, say, six months to achieve your goal. Sign and date it and keep it where you can see it. You might even impose some kind of "penalty" for breaking the contract - no chocolate for a month, maybe.
9. Get real. Were you enticed by the "illusion" that success is easy? Maybe you were enamored by the "fluff" that if you just want something badly enough, it will find its way to your doorstep. Success is WORK. Pure and simple. It is the result of a certain mindset as well as a set of deliberate actions. If you want to quit something, then quit fooling yourself by thinking it's going to be a "piece of cake".
10. Walk away. Sometimes looking at something too hard or long obscures the solutions. It's the "can't see the forest for the trees" phenomenon. By simply walking away or taking a break from the struggle to solve, you often free your mind to see new options and opportunities. [sap-basis-abap,2010]
Success - Personal growth
Understand What's Important to You
Each personality type has a different idea of what it means to be successful. Self-knowledge is one common goal that will help everyone achieve personal success. So many people are hung up on somebody else's idea of what it means to be successful, and they are unaware of what is truly important to them. This is completely normal. We all have important role-models and influencers in our lives who may have basic values that are quite different from our own. If this is the case, it's important to recognize that the discrepancy between what we have been taught is truly important and what we personally believe to be truly important is due to a difference in perspective. If we spend our time and effort trying to meet somebody else's idea of success, and ignore or belittle any conflicting messages from our own psyche, then we will find ourselves exhausted and unhappy. Realizing what is truly important to us is a major step towards achieving personal success. [personalitypage, 2010]
Maintain your everyday's Romance...
2. Appreciate yourself and your partner. Appreciation means "to grow in value, or to be sensitively aware of." Take time to understand just what it is that you like about yourself, and your partner. Saying for example, "I am doing a good job as a parent by taking time to hug the kids in the morning before they go off to school." or "I really appreciate how dedicated you are to your job." Successful relationships have a 5 to 1 ratio of appreciations to criticisms, so if you really want to heat up your relationship, start appreciating!
3. Listen. All humans crave being seen and heard. Being with your partner, and really listening to them can be magical for you both. Often, we want to fix their problems, but it is much more powerful to listen. Saying, "Wow, I can understand you are frustrated." or "That must have been hard on you." lets your partner know you're hearing them.
4. Create romance within yourself first. We often try to "get" our partners to be more romantic by believing we need to change them in order to have what we want. The truth is that you are much more likely to have what you want when 'you' show up in that way. For example, create your own romantic mood--dress, put on music, prepare sensuous foods, take some time to Love and appreciate yourself. It will not take long for your partner to join in the fun!
5. Ask for what you want. Let your partner know that you are deeply interested in spending some romantic time with them (You would be surprised at how often they are unaware of this.) Whining, demanding, and manipulating are contrary to creating romance, so do your best to ask using kind and loving words.
6. Speak your partner's love language. We often become confused and disappointed by expecting the other person to do such and such romantic things. Do to your partner the things they like as well as you telling them what 'you' like, want, and expect. When you fulfill their needs and desires, you will end up receiving the same in return!
7. Accept each other unconditionally, respect each others wishes and dislikes. Keep the mystery and fascination to each other. Love each moment as if it is the last. [weloved,2010]
Attitude & Behavior...
Attitude & Behavior development: Morals are the fundamental part of the person's attitude. Morality is learned from examples set by our parents and society.
Morality is largely shaped by parents. Children imitate their parents and gain their morality from the morality of their parents. If parents try to teach their child one thing, but do another, the child will more likely copy the actual behavior of its parents; another base of attitude and behavior that is acquired from a person's social environment is morality. It is a Freudian belief that the morality of a person is shaped by society. However, other beliefs, such as those of many religions, proclaim that morality is instilled in people by a god or gods.
Attitude & Behavior change: Attitude and behavior change with experiences and disagreement with others; while, Moral also change when your behavior goes against them. Since attitude and behavior are not the same thing, a person may offer a reason even if he or she does not believe it. This might be done so others will think that all is well and he or she would not have to show the dissonance in their outer behavior. However, the dissonance is still present and his or her attitude must change in a different way in order to remove this dissonance. This may take the form of a simple resolution, and the person's opinion of the other person may change, even though he or she does not show it in their behavior. Plus, The dissonance between attitude and behavior also explains why a person that continues to behave against his or her morals will find that the morals become weaker because his or her attitude toward that behavior is no longer strongly opposed to it. [thinkquest.org, 2010]
When a person's attitude and behavior differ, dissonance will likely result, and a change in attitude or behavior will be the probable outcome.
Signs of excessive stress at work...
Warning signs of excessive stress at work
When people feel overwhelmed, they lose confidence and become irritable or withdrawn, making them less productive and effective and their work less rewarding. If the warning signs of work stress go unattended, they can lead to bigger problems. Beyond interfering with job performance and satisfaction, chronic or intense stress can also lead to physical and emotional health problems.
Common causes of excessive workplace stress
* Fear of layoffs
* Increased demands for overtime due to staff cutbacks
* Pressure to perform to meet rising expectations but with no increase in job satisfaction
* Pressure to work at optimum levels – all the time! [helpguide.org, 2010]
Job and Workplace STRESS!
You can learn how to manage job stress as following:
There are a variety of steps you can take to reduce both your overall stress levels and the stress you find on the job and in the workplace. These include:
* Taking responsibility for improving your physical and emotional well-being.
* Avoiding pitfalls by identifying knee jerk habits and negative attitudes that add to the stress you experience at work.
* Learning better communication skills to ease and improve your relationships with management and coworkers.
Time management tips for reducing job stress
* Create a balanced schedule. Analyze your schedule, responsibilities, and daily tasks. All work and no play is a recipe for burnout. Try to find a balance between work and family life, social activities and solitary pursuits, daily responsibilities and downtime.
* Don’t over-commit yourself. Avoid scheduling things back-to-back or trying to fit too much into one day. All too often, we underestimate how long things will take. If you've got too much on your plate, distinguish between the "shoulds" and the "musts." Drop tasks that aren't truly necessary to the bottom of the list or eliminate them entirely.
* Try to leave earlier in the morning. Even 10-15 minutes can make the difference between frantically rushing to your desk and having time to ease into your day. Don’t add to your stress levels by running late.
* Plan regular breaks. Make sure to take short breaks throughout the day to sit back and clear your mind. Also try to get away from your desk for lunch. Stepping away from work to briefly relax and recharge will help you be more, not less, productive. [helpguide.org, 2010]
Simple tips to add spice and passion to your relationship...
Having romantic things to say to your woman is important to adding spice and passion to your relationship because it allows you to display your affection and appreciation in a creative and romantic way with your words. Most women are dying to hear their husbands, boyfriends, and significant others say more romantic things to them.
Here are a few sample phrases to get you started and well on your way to saying more romantic things to the woman you love. But remember to remain sincere as you try some of these out. Keep in mind also that your woman is unique, and she should be treated special, because in the long run this is what she wants from you rather than cheesy romantic lines.
1. "I don't need a reason for loving you. If I had a reason for loving you, then I'm afraid that I'd also have a reason for leaving you."
2. "You're my happy place." (with a playful smile while looking into her eyes)
3. "Forever isn't long enough to spend a life with you."
4. "You make me feel complete."
5. "I'm miss your touch, your skin. I just need you so bad."
6. "Shhh. Just kiss me." (say this when she's talking, demand it, but in a sexy and romantic way)
7. "You captivate me."
8. "You're all that I need."
9. "I love loving you. "
10. "I wish this night would last forever."
11. "I can't get enough of you."
12. "You're priceless."
13. "Come closer. Closer." (when she gets really close, kiss her forehead and tell her that you missed her like crazy)
14. "You're my inspiration."
15. "You're my favorite love song."
16. "Talk to me." (say this while holding her hands and lightly stroking it)
17. "I love you just the way you are."
18. "I love/adore the way you _____." (choose something unique and specific about your woman that you sincerely adore about her)[ezinearticle, 2010]
I hope the above phrases could help a cold man like yourself having more ideas of how to spice and add more love fire into your relationship. say these words, your women would sure excited and dying to be with you. Good luck!
Without you...
Standing there in your warm embrace,at times I can still smell the scent of you
Like you are here hugging me again.
There were times I feel as though you never went, and I turn around hopping to see you, Sitting on the bed and waiting for me.
I'm still not used to sleeping by myself, It's more than lonely to be in bed without you.
The night seems so long when you are not around. I woke up so many times at mid night and expect that morning will comes soon, but still clock is ticking so damn slow.
I miss every moment of us together, the night time that you always kept me warm.
You cuddled up against me and Our bodies touched all through the night till dawn.
Even if it was just my leg draped across yours with my elbow touching your back, I am sure that you’ll always there beside me.I knew I would be okay and that nothing could happen to me as you kept me safe.
In the morning I knew I would wake up with you, You always kissed my forehead before doing anything else and If I was already awake you would kiss my lips softly and which I always love the most.
I can still feel the pressure and warmth of your kisses, some mornings that we woke up late and we were too rush, we took shower together and that is one of the thing I am dying for.
Another thing I miss is your touch.
When my stomach or my head was hurting for whatever reason, all you had to do was lay beside me with your hand resting on my stomach and cool my head with the ice, babe, You just had the touch to ease all the pain.
You may not think this really worked but trust me, it did, very well.
Every time I feel sick, I wish I could just have you back for a second so that I could feel that touch once again.
But now I let you out of my reach, out of my sight so that you could go do your tasks.
Even it is just for a week, but without you, a week is not just 6 days or 7 days but to me, I feel like a Year.
My dearest, you are my husband, my world, my soul, my heart, my everything
And I will stand, right here in this exact spot you left me, with open arms waiting to hold you so close.
My lips will be here too, waiting to press against yours,
My eyes are searching for you and will continue to do so and my body is waiting for your warmth.
I just can’t wait for Friday to come, can’t wait to have you back in my arms, and to feel your heart beating against mine.
I love you and I am missing you badly.
With lots of love,
SOCHEaTa
My dream Car - Audi R8
Only 333 will be made, so if you want one and have the money for one, call Audi soon because they might be gone. Only a third of that total number will be coming to the United States and each will cost $198,000.
The R8 GT is a lighter and faster version of the normal R8. Audi has managed to put the car on a diet allowing it to lose around 220 pounds. Weight loss was key, but so was bulking up, so Audi added 35 more horses, or the same power as a Chevrolet Aveo. The 5.2-liter V10 now puts out 560 horsepower and will be connected to a single-clutch R-Tronic semi-automatic transmission. We’re sure that gearbox is all well and good, but a manual option would have been nice.
R8 4.2 feature highlights:
* 19" wheels with performance tires
* Audi xenon plus headlights with LED daytime running lights
* Leather/Alcantara® sport seats
* Audi concert system with single CD player with MP3 playback capability, AM/FM radio, auxiliary input jack and speed-dependent volume control
* HomeLink® and Bluetooth®
R8 5.2 feature highlights:
* 19" wheels with performance tires
* Audi parking system plus with rearview camera
* MMI® Navigation plus with real time traffic
* Full LED Headlights
Brief about Water Festival - Cambodia
For most of the year the river flows out from the lake into the Mekong. However, during the rainy season from about June to October the Mekong rises, causing the Tonle Sap River to reverse its direction and the lake to swell to more than twice its regular size. At the end of the rainy season, when the water level of the Mekong drops again, the current reverts and flows back into the Mekong.
This unique natural phenomenon is celebrated with three days of boat races, fairs, festivals, shows, parades, fireworks, music and dancing. [tourguide,2010]
Are you a good boss?!!
You cannot expect your employees to be productive if you do not provide effective supervision. Give out clear instructions, be firm in your decision, and manage your employees in such a way that you will be able to maximize their talents and skills.
2.- Encourage Good Working Relations
Aside from safety, you should also ensure that you are able to provide a positive work environment by cultivating positive work relations among your employees. You can achieve this through teambuilding seminars and activities, and by being an effective mediator between employees who have problems with each other. A peaceful and positive work environment results in employees that are more productive.
3.- Give Proper Motivation
A good boss is able to motivate his or her employees through proper methods such as rewards, recognition, favorable workers compensation and incentives. Remember, praises should be done in public while criticisms should always be kept private.
4.- Take Criticisms Constructively
Speaking of criticisms, it is important to know that just because you are a boss does not mean that you are excluded from this. In fact, expect to hear some criticisms about your work and your method of management. But do not take this negatively. Instead, use this to improve your weakness. Do not take this personally either. After all, you really cannot please everybody.
5.- Communicate with your Employees
Communication is always a two-way process and being a good boss means that you are not the only one who does all the talking. Be a good listener too. Make sure that aside from letting your employees know about your expectations, instructions, and pep talks, you also listen to what they have to say.
6.- Have a good balance between being fun and being authoritative
It is a good idea to let your employees know see the fun side of you by joking around with them or having fun. There is a time and place for that such as when you are outside the workplace. But once inside the office, you should exercise your authority and give out the necessary discipline to your employees.
A real good boss is not someone who is just pretending to be one for the sake of making profits but someone who is genuinely concerned with the welfare of his or her employees.
So i hope the below 6 tips could give you more ideas and just compare those points whether you already have all of them, if so, you are already a good boss. :) good luck!
Why is Love important?
The need to love and care for others is built into us biologically. This need is what allows parents to forgo sleep, food, and sanity while raising their children. This need is what allows people to put themselves at risk to save others from natural disasters and human threats. This need is what makes human society work on both a small and large scale.
Love means to cherish, hold dear, and treasure. We do not hurt, harm, or cause pain to those we love; rather, we seek to relieve their suffering. It is not about wanting people; it's about wanting people to be happy. It's not about wanting to possess or control others; it's about wanting to set them free.
John Oxenham described love this way: "Love ever gives. Forgives, outlives. And ever stands with open hands. And while it lives, it gives. For this is love's prerogatives - to give, and give, and give."
Love is the grease that allows the wheel of life to continue turning. For when we love we look beyond ourselves, beyond our needs and desires. We sacrifice our time, our energy, our wishes, and sometimes even ourselves because of love. Sometimes it is for an immediate person or group that we know intimately and love completely, but other times it is for a larger group of people that we don't really know or perhaps even like. It is love that allows law enforcement and emergency services personnel to face danger. It is love that allows soldiers to risk everything. Love makes heroes every day in every corner of the world. As Thomas ã Kempis said: "Love feels no burden, thinks nothing of trouble, attempts what is above its strength... It is therefore able to undertake all things, and it completes many things, and warrants them to take effect, where he who does not love would faint and lie down." [buzzle.com,2010]
So all in all, Love is important because without it life has no meaning or purpose. As Frank Tebbets says "A life without love in it is like a heap of ashes upon a deserted hearth, with the fire dead, the laughter stilled and the light extinguished." Love allows us to be more and do more than we could ever accomplish without its power.
Why should we celebrate Birthday party?
Acknowledge individual's existence on this planet. No matter in what kind of family we are destined to be born, we are here, we are here to live the life to its fullest. Each individual has only one chance in a one's
life's time to be sent to this Earth. One body, one life, one chance - Tell the world we are already here!
We still have a chance to make changes in our lives - if it has not been good so far. Take the chance to improve. Include the hopes and wishes in your checklist for your next birthdays to come - Good for you if you did managed to fulfill the dreams... [assocaitedcontent,2010]
Individual's life is a unique story, you are a part of somebody's life - one's life story is part of another's. Celebrate!
Birthday celebration bonds the family and friends - let it be a way to remember that your family and friends are worth loving. Show your love to your spouse, parents, children, brothers, sisters, friends, teachers and just anybody who is part of your life. There's nothing to lose in showing how much you care.
Birthday presents are good, but a wish that comes from your heart is worth all the presents in this world to those who love you. It's the thought that counts.
Birthday celebration does not mean that you have to have a big party each time. A simple dinner for your family or a few close friends will do, say your prayers - that would be just fine and will be remembered all the same.
So, take your time to celebrate birthdays for that special someone or any important people in your life.
baby boy or girl? Check this out...
So, if this is complicated, check this out... following is the table of chinese birth calendar. Start calculate and play with it and see is it really true!
Remarks:
- the horizontal represent the Months that your baby expected to be born.
- the Vertical represent the age of mother when she gives birth.
*** it is said that this Chinese birth calendar is up to 99% correct.
Apples....
There have certain researches conducted on this subject so as to know what really is the advantage of eating apples and according to those researches conducted the researchers are of the view that eating apples has certain advantages such as:
1. It helps in the reduction of cholesterol level as it contains Phytochemicals which serve as an antioxidant for the cholesterol and thus helps in its reduction.
2. It helps in prevention of Cancer as well as in keeping your lungs healthier as it contains certain falvonoids which the researchers as well as the National Cancer Institute has reported that the presence of this things enables the prevention of cancer by as much as 50 percent.
3. They also help in weight loss as apples are a source of dietary fiber which ultimately helps in the digestion process and weight loss.
With such great advantages of eating apples one should make a habit of eating an apple daily or make it a part of the meal. It is delicious, keeps you healthy and fresh. [blurtit.com, 2010]
Work experience and not the degree that comes first to most Employer...
Based on my own experiences, i would not hesitate to say that those who has experiences would find it alot more easier to find job or in their career moves, while, those who just graduated even with high degree still find it really hard to get a good job or to find their dream job. it's not because of their education or degree but it is because of the real experiences they are/aren't facing in working environment. and below is just a simple tips for a job seeker to pay attention on while applying your CV to any company or to recruitment agency.
What employers are looking for?
Relevant work experience
Good work ethic/attitude
Degree subject studied
Ability to be a team player
Mature attitude
Class of degree
Easygoing, cheerful attitude
Reputation of university attended
Ambitious and career-minded
Natural leadership
What turned the employers off:
Poor spelling, grammar in application
Obvious exaggerations
Poorly presented application
No relevant work experience
Non-targeted CV/covering letter
No covering letter with CV
Handwritten application/CV
No interests or extracurricular activities
Incorrect contact details for employer
Statements in CV not supported by examples
Thus, before you submit your resume to any company or to recruitment agency, plz be careful with the attention person, their names, their position (if known), their salutation (optional) or/and company name you are submit your CV to. because this is the very 1st step that will either lead u to get for the interview or to be disqualified.
Should there any problem regarding to career or whether you are facing with a career planning; our experienced consultant at Great Alliances are ready to help you. please feel free to contact me at any time. We are here to help.
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Marriage is not just a game to play, but to invest the life time...
by Ramon E Mendoza
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.
She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.
She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.
When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
A CHRIST-CENTERED MARRIAGE IS A MARRIAGE THAT IS SURE TO LAST A LIFETIME.
So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. Matthew 19:6
Last but not least, i'd like to thanks to my lovely brother for sharing this article to me. this is really worth reading! love
When You Have A Mother
When you have a mother
who cares so much for you
that anything you want
becomes her desires
When you have a mother
who is so understanding that
no matter what is bothering you
she can make you smile
When you have a mother
who is so strong that
no matter what obstacles she faces
she is always confident in front of you
When you have a mother
who actively pursues her goals in life
but includes you in all her goals
you are very lucky indeed
Having a mother like this
makes it easy to grow up
into a loving, strong adult
Thank you for being this kind
of wonderful mother.
To my mom - Janeth Moon: I hope you like this poem, mom coz it is so meaningful and this is what i wanna tell you how much i am proud to have you a my mom. there is nth i have to scared of, coz by having you near to support me, i know everything is possible and for the sake of a very warmth parental love and caress, this cute angel of yours will be the flying high to where no one can ever imagine of, i will never let u down mom. thx for always believe in me.
with lots of love,
Cute angel
A Mother's Love
And i'd like to dedicate this to my wonderful mother- Janeth Moon. you're the most wonderful ever on earth. i love you.
A Mother's love is something
that no on can explain,
It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain,
It is endless and unselfish
and enduring come what may
For nothing can destroy it
or take that love away . . .
It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking,
And it never fails or falters
even though the heart is breaking . . .
It believes beyond believing
when the world around condemns,
And it glows with all the beauty
of the rarest, brightest gems . . .
It is far beyond defining,
it defies all explanation,
And it still remains a secret
like the mysteries of creation . . .
A many splendoured miracle
man cannot understand
And another wondrous evidence
of God's tender guiding hand.
the World top 5 most expensive Car
Bugatti Veyron: Most Expensive Car in The World
2. Lamborghini Reventon $1,600,000. The most powerful and the most expensive Lamborghini ever built is the second on the list. It takes 3.3 seconds to reach 60 mph and it has a top speed of 211 mph. Its rarity (limited to 20) and slick design are the reasons why it is so expensive and costly to own.
Lamborghini Reventon side view
3. McLaren F1 $970,000. In 1994, the McLaren F1 was the fastest and most expensive car. Even though it was built 15 years ago, it has an unbelievable top speed of 240 mph and reaching 60 mph in 3.2 seconds. Even as of today, the McLaren F1 is still top on the list and it outperformed many other supercars.
McLaren F1 Orange with doors open
4. Ferrari Enzo $670,000. The most known supercar ever built. The Enzo has a top speed of 217 mph and reaching 60 mph in 3.4 seconds. Only 400 units were produced and it is currently being sold for over $1,000,000 at auctions.
Ferrari Enzo track run front view
5. Pagani Zonda C12 F $667,321. Produced by a small independent company in Italy, the Pagani Zonda C12 F is the 5th fastest car in the world. It promises to delivery a top speed of 215 mph+ and it can reach 0-60 in 3.5 seconds.
Pagani Zonda C12 F: 2nd Most Expensive Car in the World
[thesupercar.org,2010]
World's highest paid political leaders
Lee Hsien Loong tops the list of selected leaders’ salaries with USD 2.75 million annually, which means he is paid more than 40 times the city-state’s GDP per person. The figure is striking, considering the fact that Singapore is one of the smallest countries in the world with the area of just 700 square kilometers.
Donald Tsang, Chief Executive from Hong Kong comes second with USD 515,300.
The President of one of the largest economies in the world (USA) Barack Obama is the third being paid the modest $400,000 per year. As a comparison, the annual salary of Dmitry Medvedev, the President of Russia, in 2009 accounted for RUR 3.34 million (USD 110,000).
Little Things to Make a Happy Marriage
A marriage is a commitment that supersedes feelings and emotions. Day after day, actions and words help build a solid marriage. One hundred percent effort and heart should be given by both husband and wife.
Although this long term commitment is the foundation of a marriage, it’s the daily details that make it colorful and rich. Thankfully, there are limitless possibilities when trying to show a husband how special he is. Here are some suggestions to fan the flames.
Offering Respect to Your Husband
One of man’s deepest desires is to be respected. Who better to offer this respect than the woman he loves the most? What’s respect? According to Webster’s 1828 English Dictionary, respect is, “Regard. Attention.” In other words, simply pay him attention. Show him that he matters.
One way to have an altruistic heart and show a husband respect is to ask his opinion of something. If a man feels like his opinions are respected, he feels loved and appreciated. But more than asking his opinions try to actually listen to them, even heeding them. Husbands, given the chance, do have some excellent input.
Another way to show respect is to speak highly of him in other’s presence. Whether or not he’s actively listening, speaking highly of your husband raises his esteem and effectively shows a wife’s enduring love and high regard for the man of her dreams.
Serving a husband is a duty to be cherished. By diligently praying for him, performing thoughtful acts of kindness for him, and showing a deep seated respect for him, a marriage will pulsate with life. Saturate a husband with these tips and actions and and enjoy the road of an excellent marriage. [suits101.com]
All in all, to keep your love and marriage alive, wife should learn how to respect your husband not just outside but directly from the inside, you love him, you need to respect him, respect his ideas and respect him as your husband, meaning of, always asking for his idea before making decision, no matter what, he needs to be a part of your brain. Remember, not just only when you, two alone together, but you need to respect him wherever you are, even behind his back, esp respect your husband when in public. Respect him honestly and love him with you heart. that will brings a a happy marriage when he comes to understand how much you love him.
the Prediction of WWIII
Vanga’s most shocking prediction include:
“At the turn of the century, in August of 1999 or 2000, Kursk will be covered with water, and the whole world will be weeping over it.” (1980)
- The prediction did not make any sense back then. Sadly, twenty years on, it did make a lot of sense, when a Russian nuclear submarine sunk in an accident in August of 2000. The submarine was named Kursk. Kursk - the city (after which the submarine was named), could by no means have been covered with water (probably that’s why her prediction seemed so unrealistic at first).
“Horror, horror! The American brethren will fall after being attacked by the steel birds. The wolves will be howling in a bush, and innocent blood will be gushing.” (1989)
- Happened as predicted. The World Trade Center Towers in New York collapsed following terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001. The WTC Towers were dubbed “Twins” or “Brothers.” The terrorists drove passenger planes –“the steel birds”- into the towers. “The bush” obviously relates to the surname of the current U.S. president.
2010 - World War III. War will begin in November 2010 and end in October 2014. Will begin as usual, then nuclear will be used initially, and then chemical weapons.
2011 - As a result of the fallout of nuclear fallout in the northern hemisphere will not be any animals or vegetation. Then Muslims will wage war against chemical surviving Europeans.
2014 - Most people will suffer skin cancer and other skin diseases (a consequence of chemical warfare).
2016 - Europe almost lonely (empty).
2018 - New China becomes a world power. Developing countries in turn operated from exploiters.
2023 - A little bit of change in the Earth’s orbit.
2025 - Europe still little settled.
2028 - Creating a new energy source (probably a controlled thermonuclear reaction). Hunger is gradually being overcome. Launched a manned spacecraft to Venus.
2033 - The polar ice are melting. Greater levels of the oceans.
2043 - The world economy is thriving. In Europe, Muslims rule.
2046 - any bodies (organs) can be manufactured (cloning?). Replacing the bodies is becoming one of the best methods of treatment.
2066 - During the attack on the Muslim Rome, the United States used a new kind of weapon - the climate. The sharp cooling (instant freezing).
2076 - Classless Society (communism).
2084 - The restoration of nature.
2088 - A new disease - aging for a few seconds!
2097 - The rapid aging defeated.
2100 - Artificial sun illuminates the dark side of the Earth.
2111 - People become living robots.
2123 - The war between small nations. Big nations do not intervene.
2125 - Hungary will receive signals from space.
2130 - Colony under water (with the help of sympathetic councils).
2164 - Animals turn half-human.
2167 - A new religion.
2170 - Major drought.
2183 - A colony on Mars becomes a nuclear power, and demands independence from the Earth (like when - the United States from England).
2187 - Will stop 2 large eruption of volcanoes.
2195 - Sea Colony fully developed, abundant energy and food.
2196 - Complete mixing of Asians and Europeans.
2201 - At the Sun slowing thermonuclear processes. Temperature drops.
2221 - In the search for extraterrestrial life, humanity comes into contact with what - something terrible.
2256 - Spacecraft forgotten to Earth terrible new disease.
2262 - Planets gradually changing planetary orbit. Mars is threatened by comets.
2271 - Restart physical constants are changed. (Laws of physics changed?)
2273 - Mixing yellow, white and black races. New race.
2279 - Power from nothing (probably from a vacuum or a black hole).
2288 - Travel back in time (Time Travel invented?). New contacts with aliens.
2291 - The sun cools. Attempts were being made to light it again.
2296 - Powerful eruption on the Sun. Changing the force of gravity. Beginning to fall old space stations and satellites.
2299 - In France, guerrilla movement against Islam.
2302 - New important laws and secrets of the universe revealed.
2304 - Secrets of the Moon revealed.
2341 - Something terrible is approaching Earth from space.
2354 - An accident in one of the artificial Sun leads to drought.
2371 - The great famine.
2378 - A new fast-growing race.
2480 - 2 artificial Suns collide. Land in the twilight.
3005 -The war on Mars. Violated the trajectory of the planet.3010 - Comet hits Moon. Around the Earth - ring/zone of the stones and dust.
3797 - By this time on Earth killed all life, but mankind will be able to lay the foundations for a new life in another stellar system.
3803 - A new planet is populated by little. Fewer contacts between people. Climate new planet affects the organisms of people - they mutate.
3805 - The war between humans for resources. More than half of people dying out.
3815 - The war is over.
3854 - The development of civilization virtually stops. People live flocks as beasts.
3871 - New prophet tells people about moral values, religion.
3874 - New prophet receives support from all segments of the population. Organized a new church.
3878 - along with the Church to re-train new people forgotten sciences.
4302 - New cities are growing in the world. New Church encourages the development of new technology and science.
4302 - The development of science. Scientists discovered in the overall impact of all diseases in organism behavior.
4304 - Found a way to win any disease.
4308 - Due to mutation people at last beginning to use their brains more than 34%. Completely lost the notion of evil and hatred.
4509 - Getting to Know God. The man has finally been reached such a level of development that can communicate with God.
4599 - People achieve immortality.
4674 - The development of civilization has reached its peak. The number of people living on different planets is about 340 billion. Assimilation begins with aliens.
5076 - A boundary universe. With it, no one knows.
5078 - The decision to leave the boundaries of the universe. While about 40 percent of the population is against it.
5079 - End of the World.
original online source available at http://completeall.com/Informative/World-Predictions-2010-5079.html
the world top 5 richest man
I hope the following article could clear your doubt. Have fun!
1. Warren Edward Buffett is now officially the most richest person in the world. Most people wouldn’t have guessed he would be the most richest person – because he have donated billions of money to charities. But seems like the old cliche says – you do good, good things happen to you. His net worth is $62 billion. And he is the America’s most beloved investor. His father was a Nebraska politician. As a young boy, he delivered newspapers and filed his first tax return at age 13 – and he claimed $35 deduction for the bicycle he bought. His company Berkshire Hathaway’s shares has increased 25% since the middle of last July.
2. So you think Mexican’s are poor eh? Think again. Carlos Slim Helú from Mexico is the second richest person. His net worth is $60 billion. He is a son of Lebanese immigrant. He started to make money when in 1990 he bought the fixed-line operator Telefonos de Mexico (Telmex) in a privatization. One of the wealthiest person in the world living in a poor country; is that an irony or what.
3. William H. Gates III: Now here is your favorite. Bill Gates net worth hasn’t really increased much and doesn’t seem like it would – it is still $58 billion. He dropped out of Harvard university 13 years ago to start the Microsoft company that creates software and applications for computers. It is a well known fact that he lives a philanthropic life and most of his time are spent on charities rather than the work that really involves making money for himself. He seems content with his wealth, but not with his charity work.
4. Lakshmi Mittal is Indian, but lives in UK. He has $45 billion. He is the head of world’s largest steelmaker, ArcelorMittal, which accounts for 10% of all crude steel production. It just delivered 580 tons to be used in construction of the World Trade Center memorial in New York. With a 44% stake, he is the company’s largest shareholder.
5. Mukesh Ambani is the Asia’s richest person. He is Indian and the head of petrochemicals giant Reliance Industries, India’s most valuable company by market cap. His fortune is up $22.9 billion since last year, making him the world’s second-biggest gainer in terms of dollars. His current net worth is $43 billion. Mukesh is using some of his money to build a 27-story home.
Quick Beauty Tips For Busy Women
* Apply moisturizer on your face unless your skin is very oily.
* Since, foundation takes a lot of time to apply the quickest way to do it is to quickly tap the face with it.
* Tap the forehead, cheeks, nose, and chin with the foundation.
* Then use a damp cloth or sponge to smooth it out so that it blends properly.
Eye Shadow
* It is better to use only one color so that it can be applied quickly. Choosing and matching different colors can take a lot of time.
* Apply a little bit of the eye shadow on the eyelids. The trick is to use the eye shadow as eyeliner.
General Eye Makeup
* The quickest way to enhance the eyes is to add a little bit of mascara on the eyelashes. Coupled with the eye shadow it will augment the eyes.
* To get rid of dark circles apply some eye concealer.
Blush And Lipstick
* Apply blush on the cheekbones. Then brush it towards the ear.
* Then apply lipstick and you are ready to go.
Additional Tips
* Lip-gloss can be applied very quickly and it can heighten the effect of the lips.
* For your hair, you can use gels or hairsprays. With these it becomes easier and quicker to manage the hair.
* Another very good option for the hair is to use clips and pins. With these, you can transform your hair in a matter of minutes.
* Use either perfumes or body sprays.
* If you find that the makeup looks too artificial, then use a damp cosmetic sponge and press it gently against the skin. This will remove the excess makeup and give the face a fresh dewy appearance.
* If you have greasy hair, then sprinkle some translucent powder and then brush it through so that the powder settles on the roots. Take care not to apply too much powder.
* To give the effect of a nail manicure, rub a white eyeliner pencil under the nail tip. Then apply a coat of nail polish. [lifestyle.iloveindia.com]
This is Me :)
- Virac Sisocheata
- I am a Recruitment Manager at Great Alliances which is the leading Recruitment Agency in Cambodia. frankly say, i really love to live my life simply and i'd rather keep myself busy than having too much free-time. Additionally, i like to make friends with those who has same interest and traits to mine which are, hard-working, energetic, dynamic, ready to fight, and value the true relationship which is HONESTY; though, i am kinda tactless as most of the time, i tend to not care with what others might feel- i am so straightforward individual. Simple but Exceptional - All i am just this :)
Who was I - Who I am...
I, Socheata, came from a poor family and I have been brought up by my beloved parents and grandma. My parents got married since my mum was 19; while, my dad was 21 years old and she gave birth to me just one year after they got married. With their empty hands, they have been trying real hard to build up new family with a better condition. My dad has to work far away from home and came to see us as much as he could. My grandma has to take a really big responsibility in taking care of me; while, my mum also has to work at two places simultaneously, just because she wanted to earn a lot of money to feed me and to send me to good school and to spent on other needs.
I was too young at that time, I've been sent to school since i was just three years old girl and I never knew how hard they tried and how many difficulties they had faced with in life; but until I came to the age of 10, I started to realize that my parents and grandma is the best person in my life, ever. They brought me up with a very warmth parental love, full of caress, and they always watch out for me just to make sure that I am doing great. I always feel safe to have them by my side. My parents never forced me to do anything either housework or other difficult things but study; though, we are poor. All they asked me to do is to try study hard, so most of my time was in class and rarely had time to hang around with friends, because they just afraid and worried that something bad would happen to me; unless, I had their company.
For the last eight years, I was a freshman majoring in English Literature and that was the time that I think I am mature enough to understand things and at least I can figure out what is right and what is wrong. Being grown up as the first child in my family, I have committed to myself that I have to try all my hardest to make my parents proud of me, and to build up a prosperous family where my parents and grandma and my sisters can lives in a very good living condition and to reach these goals of mine, I will never step back but keep struggling no matter how many obstacles I have to face with.
As the time grew up...
Since I grew up, my parents have taught me to be a responsible person and learn to be flexible and dare to face with all problems in all circumstances. They taught me how to be a good person to myself and how to be a good person in other people’s eyes. And what I really love about my parents is how they treat me like a princess and I really respect how they never get fed up in giving me advice every times I’ve done something wrong.
Everyone who knows me always see me as I am the happiest girl on earth, I never sharing my problems and crying for help. I really love to live my life simply, I love to be myself, and I just love the way I are; with the sense of humor, enthusiasm, and abilities to work hard and make correct decision under pressure has attracted people to me since my school years.
I have graduated MBA major in General management with an intention to obtain valuable knowledge of how to lead, organized and supervise people, how to be diplomatic, and how to make people believe in me and success of a project under my supervision.
Through my ambition and thirst for achievements has brought me into a business field because of various opportunities opened by the free market economy and plus, the encouragement from my family.
I has obtained job with one of the leading Company that provides HR services, Great Alliances, starting from an internship. I think I am a sociable person, and most people did says I am a nature conversationalist and I also love to listen to educated people or business people talking about stuffs related to business and other relevance topics that can help improve my general knowledge about my area of expertise; in addition, “Great job, my daughter!” was the best compliment from my family. Hence, pursuing the admiring comment has taught me to reach for perfection, made me meticulous, accurate, result-oriented and hard-working and become who I am, now.
Whom i cherish the most...
To me, my mum is the most fantastic woman. She is the only mum who dares to do everything for the happiness in family, she never afraid of risk-taking, she never frightened of difficulties; as long as, it can bring the prosperity for the family, she sure will not waste a minute to go for it.
I have learn a lot from my mum, “Never give up, reach for perfection and the output of a team is always greater than an output of an individual” were my greatest motivations in achieving any of my goals. What is more, I have learn that persistence, meticulousness, punctuality, and, of course, reliability and quality are very important for being successful in any business.
My dad is the only dad who dares to sacarify everything and even his lives just to protect us, the family that have been built with an empty hands, and he never hesitates to risk a things to keep us safe. And what is best about him is how he always finds various ways to talk to me and advise me and he will get bored in these at nowhere.
Last but not least, my mum will always be the role model in my heart, my dad will always be the hero in my soul and my grandma will always be the best elderly legendary in my life. And I can have today, because of them and through their sacrificed. So, the love and how I respect them is immeasurably and I am sure they can clearly understand how much I cherish and worshiped them.
Again, Mum, i'd like to thank you in letting us believe that we could be whoever we wanted to be, do whatever we wanted to do, there were no limitations except our drive, confident, ambition and creativity.
Thanks for teaching me not to afraid to dream, thanks for showing me that life is always goes on. No one is perfect, but try to be the best we ever could be. Thanks, mummy and thanks daddy..i love you both with all my heart.
Respectfully to the love you've installed in me, i am honor to tell the world how much you mean to my life, and how proud i am to be born as ur daughter.
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