Secrets to a happy marriage...

Some people said "love is blind and marriage is an eye-opener" but why people are seen happier when they got married. It is becoz they knew what are the secret to a happy marriage! so try some below and see how many of them you have practice in your couples'life :)

- Never assume.
- Compliment more than you criticize.
- Always make time for the two of you.
- Marry someone that you enjoy listening and talking to.
- Remember that marriage is sometimes a bed of roses and sometimes there are thorns.
- Remember that the best gift that you can give your children is to love their mother/father.
- Be fair! Split the housework, spending money, etc evenly. This way you are never resentful of your partners contributions (or lack of) or expenditures.
- Remember that people do fight. It's how you do it that matters.
- Before starting an argument, consider if it's really worth it.
- Fight naked. ;)
- Agree to disagree.
- Never, ever mention the "D" word (divorce).
- Do you want to be right or do you want to be married?
- Respect each other's privacy.
- Remember that "love is like childhood. You need to learn to share."
- Marriage is not 50/50, it's two people giving 100/100 all of the time.
- Surprise each other now and then.
- Never pass up an opportunity to say "I love you".
- Hold hands.
- Hug & kiss every day (several times a day actually!).
- Always believe that you got better than you deserved.
- Be quick to say "I'm sorry".
- Choose the one you love, then love the one you choose.
- Love isn't always a feeling, it's a decision.
- Play nice, play often, love much.
- Never keep secrets from each other.
- Be each other's champion. No matter what, take your husband or wife's side first!
- Communication is the key!
- Always respect each other.
- Never underestimate the power of a good belly-laugh and don't be afraid to laugh at yourself.
- It's the little things that matter most.
- Never use the words 'Always' and 'Never' in a fight.
- It's ok to argue, but never use curse words to express your anger.
- Never compare your marriage to others. What you see on the outside is not always what it is on the inside.
- Don't make love in the same place/position everytime. Variety is the spice of life! [romanticstuck.com,2011]

Valentines...

Valentine's day is quickly approaching, but are you stumped when it comes to romantic valentines day ideas?

Like most people, you likely want to give your sweetheart all kinds of romance and valentines day surprises!

The only problem is...
How do you do it??

How can you make this year extra special?

What can you do to make this the most memorable Valentines Day ever?

There are tons of great ideas out there!


Its only a matter of finding that one perfect idea to suite your sweetheart!

Maybe you would enjoy spending a quite evening together sipping hot chocolate and watching your favorite romantic movie. or maybe giving her roses, though, this is too old fashioned, but it still meaningful when you gives it from heart :)

It really doesn't matter where you go or what you do. As long as you're together this Valentine's Day, the rest will fall into place.

So, what are your plan on these upcoming Valentines day??? you can share your idea and experiences here on how to make the day count :)

A Kiss - Way To Say I Love You

A Kiss is a romantic and speechless way to say Love You.Plus, It can also express our emotion and feeling.

Kiss on the hand - I adore you.

Kiss on the neck - I want you.

Kiss on the cheek - I just want to be friends.

Kiss on the ears - Let's have some fun

Kiss on the lips - I love you.

Kiss on the nose - Let's get silly.

Kiss anywhere else - You're the best.

So, Where would u prefer to kiss your lover, which indicates your nature?


Kissing should made fun loving game and with different kinds. It would not become boring act of romance. Same kiss same romance, Bring variety of romance in your life with different type of kisses.

Aggressive Kiss- When you kiss your partner, just bite down their lower lip and suck the lower lip.

Butterfly kiss - Bring your face closer to partners face and open and close your eyelids like butterfly.

Cheek Kiss - This is first date kiss, on the cheeks to say ?I like only you?.

Forehead Kiss - This is kiss to Say that I Care For You. This can say like Mama?s kiss.

French kiss - In this kissing you should be careful, this involves tongue. Pass the breath through the exchange across tongue.

Ice Kiss - Put a ice cube in your mouth and take a kiss of your partner and pass the ice cube in his mouth so on until ice cube melt.

Neck Kiss - Come behind your partner and start kissing on neck, which will generate sensation.

Open Eye Kiss - See love, passion in your partner?s eyes, gently kiss and see in your partner?s eyes.

Wave Kiss - Roll your tongue up, down, like wave while kissing.

Wet Kiss - Rub your wet lips up and down on your partners lips.

Sweet Kiss - Put any sweet candy in your mouth. Pass the candy in your partner?s mouth with your tongue. Until that candy melt then take a French kiss. This will tasty sweet kiss. [weloved.com,2011]

I hope the above text could help you learn some new technique and light up your couple's life. Try it, be sexy and make her/him feel the real it!!!

the Chinese New Year...

Chinese New Year is the most important festival in Chinese culture. It is celebrated on the new moon of the first month according to the lunar calendar, and is a time for family reunions and scrumptious feasts.

Chinese New Year traditionally lasts from the first day to the 15th day of the New Year (which is Lantern Festival), but the demands of modern life mean that most people don’t get such an extended holiday. Still, the first five days of the New Year are an official holiday in Taiwan, while workers in Mainland China and Singapore get at least 2 or 3 days off.

The Chinese New Year is a chance to leave the problems of the previous year behind. It is important to start the New Year fresh, and this means cleaning up the house and buying new clothes.

Houses are decorated with red paper banners which have auspicious couplets written on them. These are hung around doorways and are intended to bring luck to the household for the coming year.

Red is an important color in Chinese culture, symbolizing prosperity. Many people will wear red clothing during the New Year celebrations, and houses will have many red decorations such as Chinese knot work.
Red Envelopes

Red envelopes (►hóng bāo) are given to children and unmarried adults. Married couples also give red envelopes to their parents.

The envelopes contain money. The money must be in new bills, and the total amount must be an even number. Certain numbers (such as four) are bad luck, so the total amount should not be one of these unlucky numbers. “Four” is a homonym for “death”, so a red envelope should never contain $4, $40, or $400.
Fireworks

Evil spirits are driven away by loud noise, so Chinese New Year is a very loud celebration. Long strings of firecrackers are set off throughout the holiday, and there are many displays of fireworks lighting up the evening skies.

Some countries such as Singapore and Malaysia restrict the use of fireworks, but Taiwan and Mainland China still allow almost unrestricted use of firecrackers and other fireworks.
Chinese Zodiac

The Chinese zodiac cycles every 12 years, and each year is named after an animal. The year of the Rabit starts on February 3, 2011 and continues to January 22, 2012.

* Rabbit : February 03, 2011 - January 22, 2012
* Dragon : January 23, 2012 - February 09, 2013
* Snake : February 10, 2013 - January 30, 2014
* Horse : January 31, 2014 - February 18, 2015
* Sheep : February 19, 2015 - February 07, 2016
* Monkey : February 08, 2016 - January 27, 2017
* Rooster : January 28, 2017 - February 18, 2018
* Dog : February 19, 2018 - February 04, 2019
* Pig : February 05, 2019 - January 24, 2020
* Rat : January 25, 2020 - February 11, 2021
* Ox : February 12, 2021 - January 31, 2022
* Tiger : February 1, 2023 - February 19, 2011

Wishing you all a very Happy Chinese New Year!