Marriage is not just a game to play, but to invest the life time...

"MARRIAGE...A MUST READ" (Please do share TO ALL) A true sad novel
by Ramon E Mendoza

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

A CHRIST-CENTERED MARRIAGE IS A MARRIAGE THAT IS SURE TO LAST A LIFETIME.

So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate. Matthew 19:6

Last but not least, i'd like to thanks to my lovely brother for sharing this article to me. this is really worth reading! love

When You Have A Mother

Here are the lyrics of a famous mothers day poem titled "when you have a mother" by Susan P Schutz.


When you have a mother
who cares so much for you
that anything you want
becomes her desires
When you have a mother
who is so understanding that
no matter what is bothering you
she can make you smile
When you have a mother
who is so strong that
no matter what obstacles she faces
she is always confident in front of you
When you have a mother
who actively pursues her goals in life
but includes you in all her goals
you are very lucky indeed
Having a mother like this
makes it easy to grow up
into a loving, strong adult
Thank you for being this kind
of wonderful mother.

To my mom - Janeth Moon: I hope you like this poem, mom coz it is so meaningful and this is what i wanna tell you how much i am proud to have you a my mom. there is nth i have to scared of, coz by having you near to support me, i know everything is possible and for the sake of a very warmth parental love and caress, this cute angel of yours will be the flying high to where no one can ever imagine of, i will never let u down mom. thx for always believe in me.
with lots of love,
Cute angel

A Mother's Love

Below is the lyrics of a famous poem for mothers day titled "A mother's love" beautifully written by Helen Steiner Rice.

And i'd like to dedicate this to my wonderful mother- Janeth Moon. you're the most wonderful ever on earth. i love you.

A Mother's love is something
that no on can explain,
It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain,
It is endless and unselfish
and enduring come what may
For nothing can destroy it
or take that love away . . .
It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking,
And it never fails or falters
even though the heart is breaking . . .
It believes beyond believing
when the world around condemns,
And it glows with all the beauty
of the rarest, brightest gems . . .
It is far beyond defining,
it defies all explanation,
And it still remains a secret
like the mysteries of creation . . .
A many splendoured miracle
man cannot understand
And another wondrous evidence
of God's tender guiding hand.

the World top 5 most expensive Car

1. Bugatti Veyron $1,700,000. This is by far the most expensive street legal car available on the market today. It is the fastest accelerating car reaching 0-60 in 2.6 seconds. It claims to be the fastest car with a top speed of 253 mph+. However, the title for the fastest car goes to the SSC Ultimate Aero which exceed 253 mph pushing this car to 2nd place for the fastest car.


Bugatti Veyron: Most Expensive Car in The World

2. Lamborghini Reventon $1,600,000. The most powerful and the most expensive Lamborghini ever built is the second on the list. It takes 3.3 seconds to reach 60 mph and it has a top speed of 211 mph. Its rarity (limited to 20) and slick design are the reasons why it is so expensive and costly to own.


Lamborghini Reventon side view

3. McLaren F1 $970,000. In 1994, the McLaren F1 was the fastest and most expensive car. Even though it was built 15 years ago, it has an unbelievable top speed of 240 mph and reaching 60 mph in 3.2 seconds. Even as of today, the McLaren F1 is still top on the list and it outperformed many other supercars.


McLaren F1 Orange with doors open

4. Ferrari Enzo $670,000. The most known supercar ever built. The Enzo has a top speed of 217 mph and reaching 60 mph in 3.4 seconds. Only 400 units were produced and it is currently being sold for over $1,000,000 at auctions.


Ferrari Enzo track run front view

5. Pagani Zonda C12 F $667,321. Produced by a small independent company in Italy, the Pagani Zonda C12 F is the 5th fastest car in the world. It promises to delivery a top speed of 215 mph+ and it can reach 0-60 in 3.5 seconds.


Pagani Zonda C12 F: 2nd Most Expensive Car in the World

[thesupercar.org,2010]

World's highest paid political leaders

According to The Economist magazine, Lee Hsien Loong, the Prime Minister of Singapore, is the world’s highest paid politician.

Lee Hsien Loong tops the list of selected leaders’ salaries with USD 2.75 million annually, which means he is paid more than 40 times the city-state’s GDP per person. The figure is striking, considering the fact that Singapore is one of the smallest countries in the world with the area of just 700 square kilometers.

Donald Tsang, Chief Executive from Hong Kong comes second with USD 515,300.
The President of one of the largest economies in the world (USA) Barack Obama is the third being paid the modest $400,000 per year. As a comparison, the annual salary of Dmitry Medvedev, the President of Russia, in 2009 accounted for RUR 3.34 million (USD 110,000).

Little Things to Make a Happy Marriage

Pleasing a husband comes down to giving true respect and love. To make a marriage bright and to bring joy to a husband's day, try these tips for going the extra mile.

A marriage is a commitment that supersedes feelings and emotions. Day after day, actions and words help build a solid marriage. One hundred percent effort and heart should be given by both husband and wife.

Although this long term commitment is the foundation of a marriage, it’s the daily details that make it colorful and rich. Thankfully, there are limitless possibilities when trying to show a husband how special he is. Here are some suggestions to fan the flames.

Offering Respect to Your Husband

One of man’s deepest desires is to be respected. Who better to offer this respect than the woman he loves the most? What’s respect? According to Webster’s 1828 English Dictionary, respect is, “Regard. Attention.” In other words, simply pay him attention. Show him that he matters.

One way to have an altruistic heart and show a husband respect is to ask his opinion of something. If a man feels like his opinions are respected, he feels loved and appreciated. But more than asking his opinions try to actually listen to them, even heeding them. Husbands, given the chance, do have some excellent input.
Another way to show respect is to speak highly of him in other’s presence. Whether or not he’s actively listening, speaking highly of your husband raises his esteem and effectively shows a wife’s enduring love and high regard for the man of her dreams.

Serving a husband is a duty to be cherished. By diligently praying for him, performing thoughtful acts of kindness for him, and showing a deep seated respect for him, a marriage will pulsate with life. Saturate a husband with these tips and actions and and enjoy the road of an excellent marriage. [suits101.com]

All in all, to keep your love and marriage alive, wife should learn how to respect your husband not just outside but directly from the inside, you love him, you need to respect him, respect his ideas and respect him as your husband, meaning of, always asking for his idea before making decision, no matter what, he needs to be a part of your brain. Remember, not just only when you, two alone together, but you need to respect him wherever you are, even behind his back, esp respect your husband when in public. Respect him honestly and love him with you heart. that will brings a a happy marriage when he comes to understand how much you love him.

the Prediction of WWIII

Vanga (Vangelia) Pandeva was born on January 31st, 1911 and spent her life living in Bulgaria until she died on August 11th, 1996. She lost her sight when she was 12 years old when she was swept away by a tornado. She was found alive with sand in her eyes, which was the reason for her blindness. Vanga began making predictions when she was 16 years old. She became very famous for having this gift rather quickly. Many of the statesman including Hitler had visited her and it is reported that Hitler left her house looking upset.

Vanga’s most shocking prediction include:
“At the turn of the century, in August of 1999 or 2000, Kursk will be covered with water, and the whole world will be weeping over it.” (1980)
- The prediction did not make any sense back then. Sadly, twenty years on, it did make a lot of sense, when a Russian nuclear submarine sunk in an accident in August of 2000. The submarine was named Kursk. Kursk - the city (after which the submarine was named), could by no means have been covered with water (probably that’s why her prediction seemed so unrealistic at first).
“Horror, horror! The American brethren will fall after being attacked by the steel birds. The wolves will be howling in a bush, and innocent blood will be gushing.” (1989)
- Happened as predicted. The World Trade Center Towers in New York collapsed following terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001. The WTC Towers were dubbed “Twins” or “Brothers.” The terrorists drove passenger planes –“the steel birds”- into the towers. “The bush” obviously relates to the surname of the current U.S. president.


2010 - World War III. War will begin in November 2010 and end in October 2014. Will begin as usual, then nuclear will be used initially, and then chemical weapons.
2011 - As a result of the fallout of nuclear fallout in the northern hemisphere will not be any animals or vegetation. Then Muslims will wage war against chemical surviving Europeans.
2014 - Most people will suffer skin cancer and other skin diseases (a consequence of chemical warfare).
2016 - Europe almost lonely (empty).
2018 - New China becomes a world power. Developing countries in turn operated from exploiters.
2023 - A little bit of change in the Earth’s orbit.
2025 - Europe still little settled.
2028 - Creating a new energy source (probably a controlled thermonuclear reaction). Hunger is gradually being overcome. Launched a manned spacecraft to Venus.
2033 - The polar ice are melting. Greater levels of the oceans.
2043 - The world economy is thriving. In Europe, Muslims rule.
2046 - any bodies (organs) can be manufactured (cloning?). Replacing the bodies is becoming one of the best methods of treatment.
2066 - During the attack on the Muslim Rome, the United States used a new kind of weapon - the climate. The sharp cooling (instant freezing).
2076 - Classless Society (communism).
2084 - The restoration of nature.
2088 - A new disease - aging for a few seconds!
2097 - The rapid aging defeated.
2100 - Artificial sun illuminates the dark side of the Earth.
2111 - People become living robots.
2123 - The war between small nations. Big nations do not intervene.
2125 - Hungary will receive signals from space.
2130 - Colony under water (with the help of sympathetic councils).
2164 - Animals turn half-human.
2167 - A new religion.
2170 - Major drought.
2183 - A colony on Mars becomes a nuclear power, and demands independence from the Earth (like when - the United States from England).
2187 - Will stop 2 large eruption of volcanoes.
2195 - Sea Colony fully developed, abundant energy and food.
2196 - Complete mixing of Asians and Europeans.
2201 - At the Sun slowing thermonuclear processes. Temperature drops.
2221 - In the search for extraterrestrial life, humanity comes into contact with what - something terrible.
2256 - Spacecraft forgotten to Earth terrible new disease.
2262 - Planets gradually changing planetary orbit. Mars is threatened by comets.
2271 - Restart physical constants are changed. (Laws of physics changed?)
2273 - Mixing yellow, white and black races. New race.
2279 - Power from nothing (probably from a vacuum or a black hole).
2288 - Travel back in time (Time Travel invented?). New contacts with aliens.
2291 - The sun cools. Attempts were being made to light it again.
2296 - Powerful eruption on the Sun. Changing the force of gravity. Beginning to fall old space stations and satellites.
2299 - In France, guerrilla movement against Islam.
2302 - New important laws and secrets of the universe revealed.
2304 - Secrets of the Moon revealed.
2341 - Something terrible is approaching Earth from space.
2354 - An accident in one of the artificial Sun leads to drought.
2371 - The great famine.
2378 - A new fast-growing race.
2480 - 2 artificial Suns collide. Land in the twilight.
3005 -The war on Mars. Violated the trajectory of the planet.3010 - Comet hits Moon. Around the Earth - ring/zone of the stones and dust.
3797 - By this time on Earth killed all life, but mankind will be able to lay the foundations for a new life in another stellar system.
3803 - A new planet is populated by little. Fewer contacts between people. Climate new planet affects the organisms of people - they mutate.
3805 - The war between humans for resources. More than half of people dying out.
3815 - The war is over.
3854 - The development of civilization virtually stops. People live flocks as beasts.
3871 - New prophet tells people about moral values, religion.
3874 - New prophet receives support from all segments of the population. Organized a new church.
3878 - along with the Church to re-train new people forgotten sciences.
4302 - New cities are growing in the world. New Church encourages the development of new technology and science.
4302 - The development of science. Scientists discovered in the overall impact of all diseases in organism behavior.
4304 - Found a way to win any disease.
4308 - Due to mutation people at last beginning to use their brains more than 34%. Completely lost the notion of evil and hatred.
4509 - Getting to Know God. The man has finally been reached such a level of development that can communicate with God.
4599 - People achieve immortality.
4674 - The development of civilization has reached its peak. The number of people living on different planets is about 340 billion. Assimilation begins with aliens.
5076 - A boundary universe. With it, no one knows.
5078 - The decision to leave the boundaries of the universe. While about 40 percent of the population is against it.
5079 - End of the World.

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